Lizzo is all about self-acceptance and empowerment

This is the fifteenth entry in the series Honoring Black History.

I can’t remember exactly when I discovered Lizzo, but I do remember how refreshing I found her work. A self-professed “big girl with a cute face,” Lizzo is incredibly empowered and comfortable in her own skin. Having struggled with my own body image issues—including dealing with a decent amount of body shaming—I’ve found her ability to find beauty in everyone—including herself—inspirational.

Lizzo was born Melissa Jefferson in Detroit and grew up in Texas. Growing up, she played flute, listened to gospel, fronted an experimental rock band, and rapped alongside friends in a group called the “Cornrow Clique.” After bouncing around between a few different rap crews and R&B groups in Texas with little success, Lizzo decided to relocate to Minneapolis to focus on music full time. A friend offered her a place to stay and she began performing with an electro soul-pop duo, Lizzo & the Larva Ink, and an all-female rap and R&B group, The Chalice.

Sometimes things happen in unexpected ways. Such was the case when, in the midst of a bout of writer’s block, she discovered Lazerbeak’s album Lava Bangers. Inspired, she began writing lyrics over his music and decided to tweet at him, saying she’d love to work with him. Fast forward a tad and she released Lizzobangers with Lazerbeak on beats and Bon Iver’s Justin Vernon producing (no word if she paid him in Mike’s Hard Strawberry Lemonade though).

In her solo career, especially, Lizzo has spent a good deal of time at the intersection of gender, race, and politics. Skipping the obvious societal disadvantages of being Black, people dismissed her for being a female rapper and people ignored her because she’s not skinny. Rather than letting it hold her back, however, Lizzo seems to harness that oppression as fuel. It seems to have become a source of her power and inspiration for her work. Consider her raw testament that introduces “My Skin”:

Learning to love yourself and like learning to love your body is like a whole journey that I feel like every person, but more specifically, women, have to go through so I feel like doing this is a good way to kinda break through and kinda seal the last chapter of the “learning to love” and just loving.

The song is, quite literally, about learning to love the color of her skin:

I woke up in this, I woke up in this
In my skin
I can’t wash it away, so you can’t take it from me
My brown skin

I hope Oscar feels the same way as he grows up. I hope I can help him realize how beautiful he is; he certainly hears it a lot from me and Kelly, but he’s only three. I‘m sure he’ll struggle with what it means to be the Black child of two white parents, but I wish for him to never doubt his own worth, especially based on the color of his skin.

In an interview with Teen Vogue, Lizzo

recalled “When I was in high school, I was a big girl with a cute face. So dudes liked me secretly, but they didn’t like me publicly. I never had a boyfriend because they didn’t want to claim me.” Now that she’s a “star,” she doesn’t feel like much has changed. “So now in this industry, I’m a big girl with a cute face and some cute music and I’m still being liked secretly and not claimed publicly.”

That said, Lizzo does have a strong following and a lot of supporters. We appreciate her self-assured attitude. She exudes confidence and it’s infectious. “It’s like, ‘She’s comfortable in her own skin. Can I just put on her music and sing along and pretend I’m like that for a second?’ That’s the story I get from a lot of girls,” Lizzo told Billboard. “They say, ‘Thank you for making this body-positive music. Thank you for being a body-positive performer, and thank you for being you.’ That helps me be comfortable. It’s a journey but I’m getting there.”

On “Fitness,” she celebrates her curves in her patently cheeky way:

Think about how I’m gonna feel when I step up on the catwalk
Think about how I’m gonna feel when I got that ass that don’t stop
That ass that don’t stop, that ass don’t stop
And think about how I’m gonna feel when I take it all off
But I don’t do this for you

That last line cuts right through, though, and clearly demonstrates how empowered she truly is: “I don’t do this for you.”

Not all of Lizzo’s music is about self-acceptance though; it’s also about seeing beauty and value in everyone. I particularly love this verse from “Boys”:

I like big boys, itty bitty boys
Mississippi boys, inner city boys
I like the pretty boys with the bow tie
Get your nails did, let it blow dry
I like a big beard, I like a clean face
I don’t discriminate, come and get a taste
From the playboys to the gay boys
Go and slay, boys, you my fave boys

Unsurprisingly, Lizzo’s also a champion for other “big” girls. Her dance crew, for instance—“The Big Grrrls”–are all considered “plus size” by American standards. That would cause most folks in the U.S. to write them off as a novelty act, a joke… but damn they can dance. She once told Vogue “I don’t really care about having the number-one album; I care about the influence. … I’d rather have 100K big girls on the field at the Super Bowl dancing, showing the world all we can do.”

From everything I’ve read, Lizzo still struggles—like we all do—with self esteem, but her ability to push through that and be a bold example for how we all should feel about our bodies just blows me away. She’s at once positive, playful, and powerful and I can’t help but feel inspired.